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PS

2011-12-06T10:15:00.003+13:00

Hello - and welcome to my quarterly newsletter. As usual there are a few useful items: ultra simplified wardrobe planning, tips on knowing which items to hang on to and what to let go, how to choose flattering swimwear, the latest on whether your Season changes over the years, plus a fantastic Special Offer.

Looking for gift ideas? Remember, I have gorgeous silk scarves available for sale - they're light and easy to post. Plus they give THREE times by supporting the Cambodian business where they're purchased, you or whoever you give the scarf to, and again in Cambodia helping someone in need.

Or perhaps a Gift Voucher for someone special? A Private Consultation includes full workshop and wardrobe audit for $290 (or $300 if shared between two). Maybe a mini Private Consultation - come to my home and find out your Season for $59 (refer Special Offer). Or one for YOU; use as you choose eg Wardrobe Audit or Shopping Companion (1 hour = $60).

If you'd like to hear from me more often or learn more tips then come and visit my Facebook business page: www.facebook.com/personalstylenz

We'll be celebrating quietly and working through the silly season until late January, then holidaying at home when my daughter and family visit from Cambodia. Malakai is now 4.5 and Jakin is 1.5 - busy, energetic little boys; it'll be lovely to see them in the flesh - Skype is wonderful but real hugs and kisses are better!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year - do enjoy the holidays and have a wonderful summer.

Margaret

Easy Wardrobe Planning

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Simply keeping to Warm (yellow-based) or Cool (blue-based) colours makes it easy to have a mix and match wardrobe.

Do you remember a little exercise we do in the workshop? After we identify your Season (Summer, Winter, Autumn, or Spring) I ask you to sort some fabric sample into two piles: Cool and Warm.

All the Cool hues and tones harmonise with one another but steal a Warm shade or tint and put it in the Cool group, and it sticks out like a sore thumb!

Similarly all the Warm colours sit quite happily together but a Cool colour clashes with them.

So even if you don't know your Season, by keeping to either Warm or Cool colours, items will 'go' together easily.

If you'd like to know which colours flatter you (Warm or Cool, clear or muted) and more about simple wardrobe planning then ring or email me, I'd love to help (there's a workshop to suit your budget).

Recycling & Renovating Wardrobe Treasures

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Haven't we all discarded something only to wish we hadn't some time later? So how DO you decide what's worth keeping?

Look for classics which are timeless in their design, are a great fabric and well made.

Fashion tends to run in cycles, so while the latest look won't be exactly the same it may take only minor surgery to update your classic item. Good fit is essential; saggy, baggy, too tight or ill-fitting is out.
A great fabric is usually natural eg wool, silk, cotton and tends to be a good weight. Synthetics have to be really good quality to wear well (poor quality is never classy).
Being well constructed is seen in straight seams which lay flat (no puckering), patterns and stripes that match up, hems which are smooth and hang properly nb a lining helps create structure and maintains form.

Tips for Choosing Flattering Swimwear

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(from Dec 2010 newsletter)

Highlight figure assets with lighter/brighter colours, prints or detailing and camouflage figure challenges with something darker and/or plainer. For example:

SMALL BUST: choose lighter/brighter colours for top half, add a little padding or detailing eg frills or ruching at the bust.

BIG BUST: make sure you get the support you need. Opt for wide shoulder straps rather than thin or strapless nb the right halter-neck can work well. Avoid detailing at the bust - keep it simple, and remember - plain, darker fabrics visually minimise.

Does Your Season Change?

2011-12-06T09:58:00.004+13:00

I'm often asked whether your Season changes as you age. In the 80's we were told "No" but now we recognise that the answer is "Maybe" (!)

Assuming the colour consultant was right when she identified your Season, then I've found you tend to stay that throughout life.

However, I have also noticed that a little fine tuning is necessary. For example, I'm a Winter but now my hair is greying, I can't wear Black as well as I did - it's better softened to Charcoal or kept away from my face (and teamed with a skin-flattering colour eg scarf or necklace).

So I did some research to see if this is true for others and have concluded that we tend to cool and soften as we age; which means that our best colours are also cooler and softer (muted).

You know for yourself that you can tell when a woman is colouring her hair if she chooses the same dark colour she had in her 20's, it doesn't look natural (and no, I'm not saying don't colour your hair - just remember to lighten it as you age).

I recommend that as your hair greys or 'naturally lightens', you opt for the lighter, cooler colours in your Season.

For example, a Spring client requested a wardrobe audit following a Small Group workshop. Years earlier she'd been identified as a Spring but now the Summer tones looked good. Had she changed? Not really, but she did need to fine tune and opt for the cooler colours in her palette.

As I tell all my clients; not ALL the colours in your palette will be 'magic' on you - just some of them. Have fun discovering which ones and remember to adjust and update them as time goes by.

SPECIAL OFFER

2011-12-06T09:54:00.003+13:00

Mini Private Consultation

Come to my home and find out your Season; notes and printed swatch included for just $59

contact details are on my website www.personal-style.co.nz

PS

2011-09-14T09:55:00.004+12:00

I know everyone tells me it's been a mild winter BUT I feel the cold and my winter coat has definitely been in use! I bought it several years ago but wasn't happy with the fit and shape. So I took it in to Debbie the tailor (Garment Alteration Salon, Piccadilly Arcade, Tauranga ph 07 578 6662) and she worked a small miracle. It fits beautifully, is more appropriate to my scale and cost vastly less than a new coat!!

More silk scarves from Cambodia have arrived so I have a fab range available. Just ring me to arrange a time to call in to view & buy.

This September I’m celebrating six years of Personal Style workshops! The first ever small group workshop was held in September 2005. There have been a few changes to the content since then, and I still love empowering women to look their best.

Enjoy the warmer (and longer) days as we head into Summer.

Getting Married

2011-09-14T09:51:00.005+12:00

Maybe it's you or someone close to you. Isn't there a lot of planning involved?!

For me, it's my sister who's getting married.... Alison is my younger sister who is taller (she's my big Little Sister, and I'm her little Big Sister).

We started talking about what to wear months ago! She's a Winter (like me) but her style personality is very different: Natural (major) with Expressive (minor).

We had a good look around the Tauranga shops in January when Alison visited (she lives in Auckland). As we walked and talked we narrowed down what she did and didn't want.

Naturals like to feel comfortable in their clothes, they're more informal even when dressed up, and rather practical. Alison rarely wears dresses and she wanted to feel really at ease on her special day. We agreed that a lovely jacket and trousers would fit the bill, and could be worn again together or separately on other occasions.

Meanwhile Alison located a highly recommended dressmaker with whom she could work, who happened to have a background in style consulting (very handy). Together they created a design that was appropriate for the Dressy occasion and flattering to Alison.

In March we went shopping for fabric and found the perfect choice for the jacket; a gorgeous light brocade mostly greys and silver with daubs of black and an all-over geometric pattern. The trousers are silvery grey with a soft sheen and beautiful drape.

The months in between have been filled with organising everything plus fittings to ensure the outfit is perfectly tailored.

Silver jewellery & peep-toe sling-backs .... I can't wait to see it all come together!

What am I wearing? Oh yes, I'm glad you asked. My daughter Cherie gave me some gorgeous silk from Cambodia. It's a bright pink-red and I had it made up into a coat-dress, with black accessories. The wedding is in a church, so quite formal, followed by an afternoon tea/reception in the adjacent hall.

Photos will be on my Facebook business page soon - www.facebook.com/personalstylenz

Colour Terminology

2011-09-14T09:50:00.003+12:00

as explained in a Personal Style workshop. Nb other colour models are used eg in printing, dyeing (subtractive) - Cyan, Magenta, Yellow. In lighting (additive) - Red, Green, Blue.

Primary: Red, Blue, Yellow

Secondary: (mix 2 primary colours) Purple, Green, Orange

Tertiary: (mix a primary & a secondary colour) peach, melon, lime, turquoise, periwinkle. magenta nb names vary

The following terms are often used in home decorating.

Achromatic: white, greys & black

Monochromatic: one colour, with variations of texture and value (light to dark)

Analogous: uses a primary colour and neighbouring tertiary colour eg yellow, yellow-green (lime) and yellow-orange (melon)

Complementary: uses colours which are directly opposite each other on the colour wheel eg red and green or purple and yellow. Complementary colours intensify each other so it’s best if one colour dominates and the other accessorises.

Split Complementary: uses a colour in combination with two colours directly opposite it on the colour wheel eg red with yellow-green (lime) and blue-green (turquoise)

Triadic: uses three colours that are equidistant on the colour wheel eg orange, green, purple. One colour tends to be used as the dominant colour and the other two as accents.

Colour Blocking

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is a very popular trend ie wearing two or three blocks of colour at one time, usually very bright complementary hues (see Colour Terminology item)

Classic’s won’t feel comfortable with this so try wearing your favourite neutral and one colour, then add another colour in an accessory.

Expressive’s will be thrilled, just remember to be careful as colour blocks can very easily make you look shorter and wider.

Avoid wearing lighter or brighter colours on an area you prefer to camouflage, and remember a horizontal line adds width at that point. Understand your shape, use flattering lines to work it. If you’re a Triangle opt for darker colours on your bottom half. If you are a Rectangle, avoid horizontal blocks across the tummy. Minimise a large bust with a darker shade on top, do the opposite for a small bust. You need to be a tall Hourglass shape when colour blocking cuts you in half ie right on the waistline.

Remember to wear your best colours near your face. Winters & Springs wear Brights, Summers & Autumns wear Muted versions. One of the popular combinations is cobalt blue and orange ie a Cool and a Warm together. How can you make that work?

Either get the right colour near your face:

Winters: wear a bright cobalt blue nearest your face (and the bright orange away from it).

Summers: choose a greyed blue for near your face (a muted orange for away from it).

Springs: wear the bright orange near your face (the cobalt blue away from it).

Autumns: choose a burnt orange or a muted warm blue to wear near your face

Alternatively, substitute the ‘wrong’ hue for another fashion colour which is in your palette:

Winters: bright cobalt blue with shocking pink or raspberry red

Summers: smokey blue with muted pink or a soft berry tone

Springs: bright mandarin orange with warm aqua

Autumns: burnt orange with warm muted teal or blue

Spring Fashion Advice

2011-09-14T08:48:00.008+12:00

Isn't it a wonderful time of year? I love looking at all the new clothes and styles in the shops, reading the fashion magazines, and updating my wish list (oh dear, it's getting rather long!)

Let's start with COLOUR. Thankfully there's a lot of choice and whichever Season you are, you'll find something in your range.

You’ll see lots of brights - best for Winters and Springs - in cool AND warm colours. There are oranges, blues, greens, reds, and corals. Keep hunting and there are some wonderful muted tones - for Summers and Autumns.

Springs: Fashion is in love with your light brights; a vast range of oranges from apricots to corals and brightest mandarin. Some lovely aquas, teals, light greens and chartreuse. Snap up your neutrals in creams, sand, tans and browns.

Autumns: I know it’s often hard to find your palette, so you’ll be thrilled with the choice. Try to avoid the Spring tints and zoom in on your deep rich shades. Gorgeous colours: burnt oranges, paprika, brick reds, mustards, golds, olives, and fantastic neutrals: khakis, creams and browns.

Summers: Plenty of your delightful smokey blues, reds, pinks and teals. White is a big hit for the warm weather, a lovely albeit impractical look. Navy and grey continue to be available (hurray! you don’t have to make do with black).

Winters: Heaps of bright pinks, raspberry reds, cobalt blues, turquoises, and teals. Black (of course!), greys, some navy, and stacks of white.

LACE is everywhere but now it’s heavier, more antique-style, plus crochet and macrame are coming through. Tassels seem to be on everything!

SHEER lots of see-through looks: lace & crochet dresses (choose your slip or underwear wisely), floaty chiffons and voiles in tops, skirts and dresses (all lengths).

LADY-LIKE elegant blouses with billowing sleeves and bows at the neck, full skirts and dresses to the knee or mid-calf.

ORIENTAL kimono-like sleeves, obi-like sashes, origami-like pleats and folds, very sculptural.

TROUSERS - wide legs and flares are back in (Curvy's rejoice they’re much more flattering to your shape) but narrow-legs and leggings haven’t disappeared there’s just more choice in styles.

ACCESSORIES are bigger and bolder. Big bangles and cuffs. Necklaces are real statement pieces. Ladies, please mind your scale: a Petite’s big is smaller than a Grande’s. An Expressive will delight in a larger piece than a Romantic.

Oh, and don’t discard accessories; they may be currently out of fashion, but they’ll come back! (I threw out my narrow belt a couple of years ago - duh!)

About 70-80% of your clothes can be basics (essentials) so only 20-30% needs to be in vogue. Most of us don’t have to buy an entire new wardrobe, just mix and match what we have with a few new purchases.

Chrissy's Make-over

2011-06-02T15:55:00.007+12:00

Make-overs are great to see aren't they? But a make-over may not help you know what actually works for you - it's a wonderful experience yet afterwards you can still feel a bit lost.

Let me introduce you to a friend of mine; Chrissy of Bliss Baskets & Gifts. She entered a magazine competition late last year and won a fab make-over.

I recognised Chrissy in the magazine and was delighted for her but some of the stylists' choices made me shudder! So I made contact and gifted a Personal Style Private Consultation (comprehensive workshop with wardrobe audit).

Chrissy is a Summer and suits the blue-based, greyed colours, her style personality is primarily Classic-Chic with Feminine-Romantic and a touch of Exotic-Expressive.

Like many mainly Classic-Chics she had great core essentials in her wardrobe but 'something' was missing. Now she knows to incorporate some soft draping and prettiness with a touch of pizzaz to reflect all her style personality.

Chrissy is just 1.57m (5'2") and Petite in scale, she is short-waisted with an enviable Hourglass figure. Best design lines for Chrissy highlight her lovely shape while elongating her.

This all made a lot of sense to Chrissy, who now understands what is was she liked about her favourite clothes and how to make wise buying choices in the future.

I referred her to my hair stylist Becky as Chrissy's hair cut was rather severe and the warm shades were aging her.

Becky began correcting the colour and gave Chrissy a softer style, as well as helping her with some easy ways of styling it.

Chrissy's Make-over (2)

2011-06-02T15:52:00.005+12:00

What make-over would be complete without fabulous photographs capturing the 'new, improved' you?

Finding a date that suited five busy women was the first challenge!

I often refer clients to make-up artist Lillybeth, as not only does she do a fantastic natural look for the camera, but she loves teaching women how to apply their own make-up (everyday or special).

Chrissy's Make-over (3)

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Our photographer Justine's experience in family portraits, weddings, commercial, and make-over guaranteed great photos and her practical expertise meant she could advise on flattering poses too.

It was a relaxed yet focussed photo shoot, we all enjoyed working together and - most importantly - Chrissy loves the outcome.

Dream Team

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from left to right

Lillybeth Melmoth make-up artist

ph 07 578 4226

www.abeautifuleducation.co.nz

Margaret Stodart of Personal Style Ltd

ph 07 575 7415

www.personal-style.co.nz

Chrissy Mochan of Bliss Baskets & Gifts

ph 07 575 8005

www.blissgiftbaskets.co.nz

Becky Urquart of B.Hair

ph 07 571 4603

Justine McLachlan of Sassi Photography

ph 07 543 3101

www.sassiphotography.co.nz

Useful Tips

2011-06-02T14:20:00.027+12:00

Accept that you'll probably need to spend money on alterations to get a good fit. Tailoring can give your clothes shape and proportion, making you look trimmer

Buy fewer items but better quality (ie fabric, fit, design).

The Must-Have List (and my comments)

2011-06-02T14:20:00.026+12:00

According to Nina Garcia (TV's Project Runway & Fashion Editor at Marie Claire magazine)

with my comments in italics, continued from last newsletter

A Great Bag - a sturdy, roomy, yet classically styled leather bag, and a sparkly clutch.

Avoid embellishments, keep it simple and timeless in your favourite neutral.

Cashmere cardigan and turtleneck sweaters - great for layering; warm, soft and lightweight.

Gorgeous but expensive (cheap cashmere-blends shed terribly, lose shape and pill, so save up for a good one) meanwhile opt for good quality merino.

Denim - a great-fitting pair of jeans. One or two pairs of dark-rinse, coot-cut style jeans. Not too low-rise, sit just below the waist. Avoid extreme styles eg bling encrusted, bell bottoms.

May take time to find but you won't regret it.

Lingerie - make sure it fits properly and always have some sexy lingerie.

Yes, make sure it's properly fitted (our size changes as we mature). Also you'll need some different types eg t-shirt bra (smooth under knits), a sports bra (support 'the girls' during exercise), and an adjustable straps version (strapless, halter-enck, racer-back, single strap etc)

Footwear - classic toe (slightly tapered, rounded edges ie not really point or square or round). Slightly tapered heel (not thick, square ones). Smooth leather will age better (not patent or suede for longevity). Well-made ie stitched not glued.

high-heeled pumps (we call them court shoes)
ballet flats
boots: knee high, high heeled (try riding boots for comfortable walking - seriously!)
stilettos for special occasions

Again, take time to find footwear that fits properly - you don't want to be in pain or crippled by them. Definitely worth the investment.

Your Opinion

2011-06-02T14:20:00.025+12:00

What's on YOUR 'Must-Have' list?

What are your core classics (your personal essentials)?

What are your 'go-to' outfits? (ie you always look good / feel fab in)

Men & Style

2011-06-02T14:20:00.023+12:00

I'm sometimes asked whether I run workshops for men; the simple answer is 'No' (I've chosen to focus on women). Usually the query is from a woman wanting to help the man in her life. Well, the style basics for his personal style are very similar to her own.

Can you determine his under-tone? Do warm, yellow-based colours compliment him or cool, blue-based ones? Which is more flattering, white or ivory? Then decide if it's clear and bright hues or muted and smokey tones.

There are some difficulties; most Kiwi men - even if they looked good - won't wear colours that women will (Winter's bright pink?!) Also a brown suit doesn't have the same panache as a grey or navy one. So I'd just use it as a neutral and encourage him to wear a shirt with the right undertone for him.

(more in my next newsletter)

Group Workshops

2011-06-02T14:20:00.022+12:00

Ideal for those of you on a really tight budget.

Katikati Resource Centre (Beach Road, Katikati) host Personal Style Small Group Workshops (they call them 'Affordable Wardrobe Planning') AND they're heavily subsidised - just $30!!

Usually held once per term with a maximum of 10 in the group, please contact the Katikati Resource Centre direct (ph 07 549 0399) to book your place.

Term 3: Saturday 24th September

Term 4: Saturday 29th October

10.30am to 2.30pm tea/coffee provided, BYO packed lunch.

More tips

2011-06-02T14:20:00.021+12:00

Here are some tips & comments I've posted on Personal Style's FaceBook page www.facebook.com/personalstylenz

Figure Challenge: long waisted? Elongate your legs - opt for higher waisted clothes; slim legged trousers worn long; hosiery and slim heels which match skirt/trousers, belts to match your skirt/trousers.

Avoid anything low-waisted, patterned hosiery, capris and cuffed trousers.

The trouble with Fashion: a camel coloured trench coat does NOT suit everyone. Camel/tan is a warm colour so won't flatter cool-toned folk. Trench coats are double-breasted ie rather shapeless, which will make you look the same. Pockets and details add volume too (do you WANT to look bigger?)

How to shop UNsuccessfully: don't try on clothes. Buy for when you've lost weight. Buy something you feel uncomfortable in. Compromise so you haven't wasted your time :-(

Want to know what you REALLY wear? Try this for a month: everything you actually wear goes back in one side (eg Right) of your wardrobe. At the end of the month what you haven't worn will be on the other side (eg Left).

check out more comments on www.facebook.com/personalstylenz

Pleasing Proportions

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Warning: if you don't like maths, you won't enjoy this item

Ideal body (head to feet) = 8 head lengths

Top of head to waist = 3 head lengths

(the waist is where your body bends from side to side)

if less than 3 you are short-waisted

if more than 3 you are long-waisted

Waist to floor = 5 head lengths

Ideal outfit combinations (nb just outfit NOT body)

length of tops to bottoms 2:3 or 3:5

Ideal skirt lengths:

measure waist to floor = "A" skirt measures 3/8 or 5/8 of A

PS

2011-06-02T14:08:00.005+12:00

Yikes - we're half-way through the year already! As I write this it's another gorgeous sunny day - I'm enjoying our lovely mild Autumn.

But it's definitely turning chilly so, because I really feel the cold, I layer up with merino, add a beret and enjoy the warmth of gorgeous silk scarves.

If I'm still cold? footless leggings worn under trousers, plus socks inside my boots ....ahhh! happiness is being warm :-)

FASHION - Autumn/Winter 2011

2011-03-09T17:38:00.004+13:00

Yves St Laurent famously said "Fashions fade, Style is eternal".

Personal Style workshops teach you about Style rather than Fashion, which is why it's such good value - knowing what suits you is information that never dates.

However it pays to be aware of the current trends so we don't look hopelessly out of date.

As a guide, aim for 70-80% basics and 30-20% Fashion (current shape or colour) items in your wardrobe.

Layering different pieces continues to be popular, and it's wonderfully practical (especially as the temperature fluctuates).

As I look around, there are lots of neutrals: black (of course!), grey, and white for the Cool woman. Navy is finally making a come-back - a great alternative and so much kinder than black.

In a refreshing change - Warm ladies, you DON'T miss out: also appearing are khaki, camel, tan, soft nudes and creams.

Coral tints and shades are still around (Warm) as are various Purples and Blues (usually Cool) also Reds and Greens (which can be Warm or Cool).

I spotted lots of suits; jackets and skirts or trousers. Also tailored jackets worn with dresses. The Military look keeps popping up, as does the Preppy (posh school-girl) one. There's an old-fashioned but modernised Victorian feel to many items; plus lots of Leather and Lace, both separately and together (often Black).

The 50's continue to influence with flared skirts and fitted bodices, while the 70's retro vibe means capes are "in".

Plaid is making an appearance - Natural-Casuals will enjoy this. Meanwhile there's still plenty of pretty draping and frills to please the Feminine-Romantics.

Over-size knits abound; be careful with this look (easy for you to look big and shapeless too). It's made to work by showing lots of shapely, long legs (oh dear, I missed out on LONG legs) team with shorts / leggings / skinny trousers.

Footwear appears to be surprisingly sensible with laces everywhere. Boots - knee-high, ankle, and shoe-boots; brogue styles; and lots of wedges and Cuban (stacked) heels.

The Must Have List

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according to Nina Garcia (TV's Project Runway, and Fashion Editor at Marie Claire magazine (continued from my last newsletter). with my comments in italics

Skirt - A-line or pencil (or one of each) with a hemline just above/below the knee (whichever works best for you). Wool for autumn/winter, cotton for spring/summer. Dark solids or subtle prints in muted colours.
M: Pencil skirts don't suit all body types, A-lines are better. Neutral solids are the most versatile nb Winters/Springs don't suit muted colours. Solids are more useful as they can be worn with solids or patterns

Blazer - tailored blazer or suit-style jacket gives a put-together look.
M: Classic-Chics will love this, Natural-Casuals prefer a less structured jacket, Feminine-Romantics want a softer, drapier feel (maybe lace trim too), Exotic-Expressives like a unique look ie more creativity.

Little Black Dress - a simple black shift can be accessorised in many different ways. Choose a matte fabric, not too stretchy eg wool crepe. Good fit is important, tailor as necessary.
M: Opting for your darkest neutral would work better eg Navy is back in fashion and would be gorgeous for Summers. Black doesn't flatter everyone but you can make it work for you with the right-coloured accessories (earrings, necklace, scarf). If it isn't your best neutral then choose low rather than high neckline styles so it's away from your face. Consider a no-sleeve style; easy to wear a mesh top underneath to cover arms or in winter.

to be continued

FaceBook

2011-03-09T16:36:00.002+13:00

Personal Style also has a business page on FaceBook - with (mostly) weekly comments.

You don't have to be a member to view my page: www.facebook.com/personalstylenz

Wonderful Water

2011-03-09T16:31:00.004+13:00

Drinking WATER is one of the best things you can do for your health. Fantastic for glowing skin, marvellous for weight management, and the safest way to prevent/treat hay-fever.

How much? Multiply your weight (in kilograms) by 29.09 and it will give you how many litres per day you need to drink (then divide by 0.250 if you want to know it in cups). Drink more if you're working/exercising hard and sweating.

PLUS when you drink a diuretic (ie you lose more than you take in) such as tea, coffee, fizzy drinks, or alcohol, add a further 1.5 times that again in water.

Too hard? Just try it for a week - you'll be amazed at the difference. (Okay, yes you'll also visit the toilet more but only until your body adjusts and gets over the shock of actually getting the water it so desperately needs.)

Did you know?

Women are 50-60% water (the brain is 85%)
Most of us are constantly dehydrated

Subsidised Workshops

2011-03-09T16:27:00.001+13:00

Come to a Small Group workshop (without organising it!).

The Katikati Resource Centre is hosting Personal Style Small Group Workshops (called Affordable Wardrobe Planning) AND they're heavily subsidised - just $30 in 2010 (may be reviewed).

The next one is on Saturday 19th March.

Phone them direct to book your place 07 549 0399 or to be wait-listed for the next one.

P.S.

2011-03-09T16:22:00.003+13:00

Wow - what a fabulous Summer; I love the warm weather. The only good thing about it getting cooler are the gorgeous new clothes in the shops!!

We were the hosts on Christmas Day (3 for breakfast, plus another 4 for lunch, and a different 4 for dinner!) On Boxing Day I drove up to Auckland and enjoyed a barbecue dinner with some of my relations.

At the end of January my daughter Cherie, her husband Ben and their boys Malakai (3) and Jakin (7 months) flew in. We had a marvellous time with them but all too quickly it was time to see them off. After a fortnight in Australia, they'll be returning to Cambodia.

Cherie brought over LOTS of gorgeous silk scarves which are for sale, a wonderful range of colours: new shades as well as some favourites.

P.S.

2010-12-10T13:44:00.002+13:00

My daughter Cherie and her family went to Cambodia at the end of October (when baby Jakin was 4 months old) to establish a new base in Sihanoukville. They’re visiting us for a few weeks in early 2011.

Not sure what we’re doing for Christmas Day but we’ll be celebrating with family and friends. It’s a great time of year for enjoying some good food, good company, resting and relaxing. Hope you do too!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year—all the best for 2011.

Swimwear

2010-12-10T13:37:00.004+13:00

Is choosing new swimwear a nightmare? Knowing your unique Personal Style will make it a little easier to find the right one for you.

Know the Colours that compliment you; the right ones will enhance while the wrong ones can age you/make you look ill.

Know your Style Personality mix; it’s pointless buying a pretty floral with ruffles if it’s not you.

Know your Body Shape so you can highlight your assets and camouflage your figure challenges (see tips on Selecting Swimwear)

Know the Design Lines which will flatter you.

Know the Occasion: the type of swimsuit you select for training/serious exercise will be different from the type you choose for relaxing by the pool or at the beach.

One piece or two piece? There are modest or revealing styles in both types, so keep looking and find the one that makes you SMILE in the mirror!

The Must Have List (and my comments)

2010-12-10T13:33:00.003+13:00

According to Nina Garcia

(TV’s Project Runway, & Fashion Editor at Marie Claire magazine)

Trench Coat—a wool version for cold climates, cotton with removable lining for temperate climates. Just below the knee seems to be the most versatile.

Double-breasted styles can make you look boxy and wider in the torso. If you opt for a colour people remember it but one of your Season’s Neutrals is forgettable and will go with everything in your wardrobe, just brighten it with colour near your face eg a scarf.

White Shirt—perfectly tailored. There are many different styles, avoid ultra-trendy designs.

Not everyone suits white (ivory flatters warm skin tones) and for many women even the right one can be too draining. Wearing a white shirt with very dark skirt/trousers cuts you in half so you won’t look as slim (add another layer eg waistcoat/cardigan/jacket to minimise this effect). Nor does every Style Personality like tailored shirts. By opting for a Neutral top you will tend to wear all neutrals or need a coloured ‘jacket’ (which won’t go with all of your colours).

Trousers—light wool trousers can be worn almost throughout the year. A solid, neutral colour with a simple cut (avoid extremes eg flares, very tapered).

Most Kiwi women will opt for black but charcoal or chocolate may work better with your skin tones and wardrobe colours.

to be continued in next newsletter

Selecting Swimwear

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Here are some tips to make it a bit easier to find the right one for your body shape. Basically, highlight assets with lighter/brighter colours or prints or detailing and camouflage figure challenges with darker/plainer colours

Small Bust: Choose lighter /brighter colours for top half, a little padding, or detailing eg frills, ruching at the bust.

Big Bust: Make sure you get the support you need. Opt for wide shoulder straps (not thin, string or strapless). The right halter-neck style can work well. Avoid detailing at bust area, keep it simple. Plain, darker fabrics will visually minimise.

Thick Waist: create curves with draped surplice (cross-over) style, darker/plainer colour at waist. Add emphasis to bust & hips as visually widening them makes your waist look smaller.

Round Tummy: Distract away from area by highlighting a figure asset eg bust. Draping & ruching flatter by preventing fabric from clinging (which emphasises).

Big Hips/Thighs: draw the eye up with print top, use plainer/darker colour for lower half.

Short: a one piece with plunging neckline or vertical stripes will elongate you. Or plain bottom with printed top (draws eye upward). Simple & unfussy styles.

Tall: opt for patterns, blocks of colour, details, or cut outs (to break up your length). Avoid high necklines, vertical stripes, dark solid colours.

Small Group Workshops - subsidised

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Want someone else to organise a Small Group workshop for you?

The Katikati Resource Centre has decided to continue hosting Personal Style Small Group Workshops (called Affordable Wardrobe Planning) AND they’re heavily subsidised (only $30 in 2010!).

Next one is Saturday 19th March 2011.

Phone them early to book your place 07 549 0399

Want More?

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Like to know more? Visit my web site www.personal-style.co.nz

Personal Style is also on FaceBook, comments and handy tips (approximately weekly) if you’re a member please ‘like’ the page and get the updates automatically. www.facebook.com/personalstyle.nz

P.S.

2010-12-10T13:20:00.005+13:00

I’m sure I’m not the only one wondering why Christmas is coming so early this year!

I think we were distracted by my brother-in-law Peter celebrating his 60th birthday in his back yard on Waiheke Island. BIG back yard! Argentine style barbecue, live music, and 200 guests with a Mad Hatter’s Tea Party theme.

On Line Advice

2010-09-03T08:30:00.006+12:00

Do you want more info. and pictures regarding what to wear for your body shape? Maybe this will help; there's now a link on my website to The Personal Stylist (an Australian site).

Usually $A89, if you go via my website then it's just $NZ85 The program will ask you various questions and provide advice regarding your best shapes eg collars, necklines, tops, jackets, dresses etc (even hairstyles) which you can print out. Books are also available ($NZ30-38)

Yes, you can check it out first. View the video and look at the sample recommendations for "Ellen Sims".

Spring Fashion

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This little top is from Farmers. It uses narrow stripes above the bust which visually widens the shoulders. Great for Triangles.

Spring Fashion

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I love viewing all the gorgeous
clothes now in (and still coming to) the shops.

Ideally your wardrobe is 70-80% core essentials and 30-20% fashion. Now that's not to say you have to buy everything that's trendy (there'll be lots that won't suit you). But you can have an up-to-date looking wardrobe by having a few items which are current eg shape, colour or style (not all three, it'd be too much). Pick and choose the look that works for you.

There are lots of pastels and neutrals this season; Pastels won't suit everyone but it's a great time to stock up on your Neutrals (white, ivory, cream, beige, brown, grey, black). Autumns will be relieved to see khaki is popular - a great alternative Neutral for you.

The very bright Poppy Red is still popular - ideal for Springs but too bright for Autumns and too warm for Winters.

Lace and ruffles or frills are everywhere; so if your style personality includes the Feminine-Romantic, you'll enjoy this trend.

Also lots of stripes and polka-dots. Broad horizontal stripes are not your friends (unless you're tall and thin) but skinny ones can be RELATIVELY slimming.

Look for clever draping, asymmetrical and/or diagonal stripes to create the illusion of curves and optical illusions. Be careful where you wear stripes; try layering (see illustration) to wear them in the right place for you.

Looking Slim Rule 10

2010-09-03T08:10:00.003+12:00

Finishing a series based around Leah Feldon's 10 Rules for Dressing Slim. Her Top Ten are all covered in the Personal Style Workshops. This item is Rule 10 Direct Attention to Your Face. Divert attention away from figures challenge(s) and towards your face (the centre of communication) and figure asset(s). Negative Space is created when bare skin is surrounded by material eg cut out sections, necklines. The more attractive the shape of the neckline, the better its negative space and the more effective it is at directing attention to to your face. Scarves they're unbeatable when it comes to redirecting attention plus they can help elongate the body and turn an ordinary outfit into something extraordinary. There are two main shapes: square and oblong. Square are great as shawls but oblongs are more elongating when tied or draped. Scarf Advice:

Go for top quality; definitely a worthwhile investment as it never goes out of style and will always fit!
Match clothing weight with scarf weight eg a lightweight chiffon scarf may look unbalanced with a heavy wool jacket.
Wear scarves in colours that warm your skin and make it glow.
A print scarf should always include one or more of the colours in your outfit.

Subsidised Workshops

2010-09-03T08:07:00.003+12:00

The Katikati Resource Centre is hosting Personal Style small group workshops AND they're heavily subsidised (only $30!!) Just two more this year Saturday 30 October and 20 November. Phone them early to book your place on 07 549 0399

FaceBook

2010-09-03T08:04:00.003+12:00

Do check out the Personal Style business page on FaceBook - you don't have to be a FaceBook member to view it. But if you are, please 'like' my page and boost its popularity, plus you'll receive the updates automatically.

PS

2010-09-03T07:59:00.003+12:00

The day after we arrived to visit my daughter, her husband Ben and their 3 year old son Malakai, Cherie had their son Jakin. A lovely straight-forward birth, he was a whopping 4945g (10lb 14oz)!

We had wonderful family time for an all-too-short ten days. They plan to return to Cambodia at the end of October (new silk scarves should be available in November!).

I needed new biz photos; thanks to Logan Davey photographer, Lillybeth of A Beautiful Education for a great natural make-up, and Beks at B Hair for styling my hair (ph 07 571 4603)

PS

2010-06-05T14:11:00.004+12:00

2010 started fairly quietly however thanks to many wonderful client referrals, there have now been more workshops than this time last year. Recently a brief mention in the Herald on Sunday followed by a photo and item in the BOP Times led to even more enquiries and bookings.

Meanwhile, we're waiting to hear of the arrival of grand-child number 3 (Cherie & Ben's second). We're going to visit them on the Gold Coast; really looking forward to some family time together and giving the new mum a hand (they'll be heading back to Cambodia towards the end of the year).

M

now on FaceBook

2010-06-05T14:07:00.004+12:00

Personal Style now has a FaceBook page: www.facebook.com/personalstylenz

If you're a FaceBook member, please 'like' my page (it helps build my internet profile) and you can get the brief updates automatically.

Subsidised Workshops

2010-06-05T14:04:00.002+12:00

The Katikati Resource Centre is hosting Personal Style Small Group Workshops AND they're heavily subsidised (only $20!!). Only two more are planned for 2010 - Saturday 14th August and 20th November. Phone them early to book your place on 07 549 0399

Looking Slim

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continuing a series based around Leah Feldon's 10 Rules for Dressing Slim. Her Top Ten are all covered in the Personal Style Workshops.
Rule 9 Don't Let Your Accessories Bring You Down (part 3)

Hair can be your shining glory or a horror story; it's always there for everyone to see (no wonder bad hair days are so depressing)

While hair can't make you look fat it can change your face shape, influence how tall/short you look, and affect your overall proportion and balance.

The ideal style is compatible with your body type, face shape, hair texture, facial features, lifestyle and personality.

Be persistent and find a good stylist, it may cost more but it's worth it (you could settle on the perfect style then alternate between the maestro and someone less expensive).

If you see someone with a great cut and similar hair texture, ask her who cuts her hair - she'll probably be flattered and happy to tell you.

my stylist is Beks at B.Hair ph 07 571 4603

Do take into account your head size (you can't change it)
Your hairstyle needs to be consistent with your style personality
Don't get stuck in the past; your face changes as you age so your style needs to too
Think proportions: if you're small be wary of big-volume hair whereas big women need volume.

An asymmetrical style can make you look taller as the angle brings the eye up.

Hair-styles which show the neck create an elongating line (especially important if you have a short neck). Keep knots and chignons relatively high rather than low (as that creates a horizontal line in profile).

Long straight centre-parted hair pulls the face down, side parts are more flattering.

Identical Twins

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from a UK fashion stylist

I had known the twins for around ten years ... they were utterly beautiful girls. Their father was Italian and they had inherited his Mediterranean dark eyes and curly darkest-brown hair. And for ten years no-one I knew, apart from their mother, had ever been able to tell them apart on a consistent basis.

I dressed them both in custard yellow and then got a real shock. One of them looked absolutely ghastly while the other sister look perfectly wonderful. I got out my drapes and discovered, to my total amazement, that the one who looked fantastic was an Autumn and the one who didn't was a Winter.

I had assumed they would be exactly the same season ... big mistake! One I have never repeated.

Leggings

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Leggings - fashionable and useful but are they for you? If you're tall with lovely long, slim legs then Yes, wear leggings in bright colours eg neon tints, and enjoy patterns and textures.

For the remaining 96% of the population, wear with care. Plain, dark, matte colours are the most slimming.

Think of leggings as casual pantyhose. Just as you wouldn't wear pantyhose alone with a short top, leggings are best under short (above the knee) dresses and long (covering crotch and buttocks) tunics and tops.

They're great for casual occasions; adding informality to a pretty dress. Can you wear them to work? It depends upon your job - they're not for formal offices eg lawyers, accountants.

How long should your leggings be? Definitely below the knee. Ladies shorter than 5'6" (167cm) need to be cautious as leggings will visually reduce your leg length (you want to maximise this to appear taller and/or slimmer).

Shorter leggings can be worn just below the knee - if you have shapely, slim lower legs. Finishing just below the calf muscle is another good spot. As long as possible is my personal favourite - I need all the leg length I can get at 5'2" (157cm).

Just remember; leggings aren't magic. They won't make your thunder thighs disappear (the right length top can camouflage them) but they're fashionable, you can wear short dresses modestly and they're a handy extra layer for added warmth.

Leggings don't suit everyone - you may find that slim-leg pants are more flattering under tunics. You can still look up-to-date yet stylish.

Wearing Layers

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Layering is wonderful and a continuing trend - plus it's so practical for our changeable climate and current season (or maybe you're having 'mini holidays on a tropical island' ... aka hot flushes!).

Select light-weight pieces eg fine knits (and limit the numbers) or you'll look bulky. Merino, cotton and silk are really versatile (some synthetics are excellent too).

It's really important to get the Proportions right. Beware of visually cutting your body in half (a ratio of 1:2 or 3:5 is more appealing).

Also, avoid layers which reduce your leg length (unless you are 1.7m/5'7" plus) as long legs make you look taller and slimmer.

Here's a helpful guide: measure from your shoulder to the floor (when barefoot). Take note of the half-way point - it's the longest length to wear your tunics and jackets (you can use a ruler to check this out on the photo nb the model is 1.58/5'2" Her multi-coloured print layer is too long for her and she loses leg length, plus 3/4 length leggings further emphasise it)

Opting for mono-chromatic colours will also help you look longer and leaner (please, NOT all black!) Choose one of your most skin-flattering colours to create combinations from lightest at the top to darkest at the bottom. Add an accent colour with your accessories: Fabulous!

But I want to wear Black ...

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Then you can! Just because it isn't your best colour doesn't mean NEVER wear it again. It means wear it so it works for YOU (even some Winters struggle to wear it close to their face eg polo necks).

Choose to wear Black:

by keeping it away from your face (low necklines or wear on the lower half)
with your most flattering colours (jewellery, tops)
by wearing (more) make-up to counteract the way Black drains colour from your face

WINTERS: any of your vibrant jewel hues eg purple, bright turquoise, cobalt blue

SUMMERS: choose your strongest tones eg raspberry, deep smoky blue, teal

AUTUMNS: opt for your richest shades eg terracotta, deep tomato red, jade green

SPRINGS: your lightest and brightest tints eg peach, lime, emerald-turquoise

Subsidised Workshops

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Katikati Resource Centre is hosting Personal Style Small Group Workshops AND they're heavily subsidised (only $20!!) Phone them for dates and to book your place on 07 549 0399

Looking Slim - Rule 9

2010-03-05T15:01:00.004+13:00

Continuing a series based around Leah Feldon's 10 Rules for Dressing Slim. It's good to know her Top Ten are all covered in the Personal Style Workshops, so this is just a refresher for you.

Rule 9 - Don't Let Your Accessories Bring You Down (part two)

Jewellery: maybe not for camouflaging but great at distracting from trouble spots & attracting attention to more advantageous positions.

Long necklaces - create flattering vertical lengths (but not a great idea for big busted women; choose necklaces which end above the bust).

Bulky chokers are iffy for most as they visually shorten necks; if you must, then opt for narrow chokers (nb they're especially made for short-waisted busty women).

Keep jewellery scales to your size ie not too large for small women, not too small for big women.

If a piece eg pin, brooch, bracelet, or ring is too insignificant to wear alone, try wearing 2 or 3 together.

Earrings needs to suit you (face / style / shape). Big bold earrings will overpower most small faces. Strong faces call for substantial earrings. Big round earrings make a round face look rounder.

Drop earrings can help elongate and make you look taller, but they must be in proportion to your face & hair length (if too long / big they can drag you down).

Hats: There should be genuine harmony between your hat and your personality. If you're not 100% comfortable wearing hats then don't.

Make sure hats are complementary to your body and face shape. NB it's important to be able to see the neck from behind.

Bags: proportion & balance appropriate (plus stylish, fit your lifestyle, blend with your neutrals, compatible with your clothes, personality & body type).

Size contrasts are problematic eg an over-sized bag makes a short woman look shorter, an under-sized one makes a large woman look larger.

Ensure shoulder straps aren't too long. A bag that hangs too low will make you look shorter.

Shapes that are a big longer than they are wide, are generally better (unless they're quite small).

Softer bags with slightly rounded edges are usually more flattering than stiff ones with sharp angles. However bags which are too soft / floppy / rounded aren't recommended for heavy women.

CAUTION: carrying a heavy bg on your shoulder over the years can make one shoulder lower than the other, forcing your body to counterbalance it ie potential back & hip problems.

PS

2010-03-05T14:58:00.005+13:00

Wow, it's hard to believe it's March already! What a fantastic summer we've had in the sunny Bay of Plenty. Although it's still lovely & warm (and I'm in no rush for cooler temperatures), I'm really enjoying checking out all the new season's styles in the shops - so tempting!

We have another grandchild on the way; due in June (to Cherie & Ben, a sibling for Malakai).

M

Travelling Light

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When you know your best neutrals and most flattering colours, creating a versatile wardrobe is simple. Your neutrals form the core and colours provide the impact (and fun).

Apply the same principles when you're travelling and you'll be carrying a lighter load by taking fewer items yet having more outfits.

Keep to a limited range of colours eg two neutrals and one colour. Accessories such as scarves and jewellery can provide extra colour.

Choose items that don't wrinkle (or hardly) such as knits, especially items which you can layer for maximum versatility and to cope with temperature variations.

Separates offer the most flexibility (refer to the capsule concept in your workshop notes). Consider the types of occasions your trip will cover: Casual, Smart or Dressy? Is it mostly business or a beach holiday? and pack accordingly.

It's practical to have more tops than trousers or skirts (5 to 1 ratio). And it's a good idea to plan your packing in advance; try creating different outfits from multi-purpose, favourite items (the ones you turn to again & again).

Limit shoes to three pairs and ensure at least one pair are really comfortable; you'll probably be walking more than you expect (exploring, shopping, making connections, getting lost, etc).

Make Up for Your Season

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Have you discovered that choosing the right colours for your cosmetics is so simple now you know your season?

If all your clothes have been chosen to suit your skin tones, then one lipstick would go with all your clothes (and YOU!)

Blusher:
Spring - warm peaches
Summer - pale pinks
Autumn - warm browns
Winter - rose pinks

Lipstick:
Spring - coral pink
Summer - rose pink
Autumn - copper
Winter - cherry

Looking Slim - Rule 9

2009-12-07T15:17:00.003+13:00

Continuing a series based around Leah Feldon's 10 Rules for Dressing Slim. It's good to know her Top Ten are all covered in the Personal Style Workshops, so this is just a refresher for you.

Rule 9 Don't Let Your Accessories Bring You Down (part one)

Shoes: If your legs are heavy-ish then beware of square toes and chunky heels, as well as ultra-pointy toes, stiletto heels, and ultra-delicate styles. Avoid wide dark straps across the instep or ankle eg the gladiator sandal. A slight heel gives a much longer leaner line than totally flats ones.

Ensure your shoes make sense with your outfit eg sneakers don't go with a business suit (only on 17yr old models!). Heavy shoes eg platforms add weight. High vamps (the bit that goes across the top of your foot) shorten and add weight to legs.

NB black doesn't go with everything eg when wearing light to mid-tones; opt for lighter neutrals (M: grey & pewter for Cool, bronze & copper for Warm)

Pantihose: avoid white (unless you're a nurse), patterned or novelty ones eg seamed, fishnet, striped, bright coloured). Choose nude or slightly darker than your skin. Sheer black and dark grey works well with dark skirts but ensure they fit well. Don't wear reinforced toes with sandals (sheer toes or go bare-legged). The dressier the shoe, the sheerer the stocking should be.

Belts: never wear tight belts. Avoid contrasting coloured belts (creates a horizontal line) and wide belts (unless you're tall and thin). Make sure the belt suits the outfit. If a garment comes with a belt (usually cheap and tacky) then replace it with a quality belt or simply eliminate it.

Balance Points for Necklines & Jewellery

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I found an interesting website & blog recently which explained how to work out your 'balance points' (see photo)

Take a piece of string (purple) and measure the length of your face (forehead to chin) then use that same measurement from your chin to your chest. Necklines and jewellery look best within 1 cm of this point. If your necklines end here, it makes your neck look longer. Button your shirts up to it; the ideal lowest point of your decolletage.

Another balance point (green) is found by locating the widest part of your face (it may be across your cheekbones or forehead or chin) and drawing an imaginary line across your face. Now measure from this line to your chin. Using the same measurement, mark from the shoulder line down (onto your chest). This marks the highest point for your necklines and necklace.

PS

2009-12-07T15:07:00.002+13:00

We had a wonderful family get-together for my husband's 60th at the beginning of October. Thanks to Belinda of Lemongrass Catering who made the fabulous food & greatly simplified things for us.

Christmas is coming up fast, my extended family will be gathering at my son's this year - creating great memories!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year - M

Skirts

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Do you know your best skirt length? It's quite simple really, a matter of appreciating your figure assets and acknowledging your challenges.

Short skirts (thigh length) look great if you have slim, shapely legs and knees. Avoid wearing extremely short skirts - 6cm above your knee is modest, alhtough that may still be too much for some conservative environments.

Knee length skirts suit most women and if you have lovely knees then show them with a just-above knee length.

My knees aren't gorgeous (neither are they too dreadful) so I wear my skirts long enough to just cover them.

To discover your best knee length, slowly slide the hem-line of a scarf or sarong over your knees while you watch in a full-length mirror. You can discover your best shortest- and longest- length using this method.

Have you noticed you automatically wear your wider skirts longer than your slim skirts? It looks better doesn't it? (due to proportions).

If you have, or want to cover, heavy legs and calves then choose calf- or ankle- length skirts. Hem your skirt in line with the end of your calf muscle or slightly lower (nb not the widest part of the lower leg).

Ankle length skirts suit those who are 1.65m (5'5") or taller.

If you are 'vertically challenged' (short, like me) then remember that dresses offer the very best line for maximising height and slimness.

Could you wear the Same Dress Everyday for a Year?

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One woman is! Sheena Matheiken is doing it as an 'exercise in sustainable fashion' and fund raising for a charity. The fascinating bit is that she manages to make it look different each day.

Actually there are 7 identical simple black button-through short dresses which can be worn open or done-up, and even back to front so it's very versatile. Do have a look at the site; it's called The Uniform Project.

Looking Slim Rule 8

2009-09-03T19:19:00.007+12:00

Continuing a series based around Leah Feldon's 10 Rules for Dressing Slim. It's good to know her Top Ten are all covered in the Personal Style Workshops, so this is just a refresher for you.

Rule 8 Build on the Right Foundations

Underwear can make a big difference to how you look in your clothes. Visible panty lines not only look bad but they often create bulges eg bikinis create bumps across buttocks AND hips, boy-leg cuts emphasise heavy thighs.

Experts reckon 70-80% of women are wearing the wrong size bra, could that be you? You need a 'wardrobe' of bra styles. Push-up bras create cleavage and look great in a low-cut top but add lumps under snug knits, that's when you need a seamless, moulded cup (t-shirt bra). A convertible bra for different strap styles (halter neck, criss-crossed, wide set, racer-back). Some women need padded bras, others need minimiser bras, while side support panels are a great choice if you bulge at the sides (under the arms).

Sheer pantyhose offer leg support (compression to increase blood circulation) and help hold you in. Good ones aren't cheap but they are definitely worthwhile (M- I've started wearing Kolotex Sheer Relief).

'Shapewear' is the next step up from underwear; it's designed to slim and "de-jiggle" you. You may have heard of Nancy Gatz' Body-slimmers and Trinny & Susannah's Magic Knickers. There's something for every problem area: body suits, body slips, half slips, tummy-toner panties, waist cinchers, derriere lifters, long-leg panties, and leggings.

Looking good in photos

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The reason most red carpet poses appear to be angled from a side or three-quarter viewpoint is that it gives the appearance of smaller hips. So, too, the ubiquitous trick of crossing your ankles. If seated, push forward slightly to keep the bottom half farther away from the lens. Bend your legs at the knee and push your feet slightly back.

The standard beauty pageant pose - one hand planted on a hip with the other straight down - is popular for good reason. It not only gives a woman something to do with her hands, it also causes her to consider how the rest of her figure appears. Read: stomach in, shoulders back. Palms are also best facing the thighs.

As for your face? A chin tipped slightly up can stretch out a double chin. But don't overdo it or you risk an uninvited view of your nostrils. Tip your head down and the focus is on your eyes. Keep lips partially open or smile generously.

When in doubt, smile! Any flaws in an outfit or pose disappear when you look like you're having a good time.

PS

2009-09-03T19:15:00.003+12:00

Isn't it lovely to see the sun? Even in the freezing depths of winter, a sunny day is cheering. Although it's feeling warmer for us, it will feel very cold for my daughter Cherie & family who will be home in NZ from early October to late December.

My grandson Malakai is 2 now and we haven't seen him since he was 8 months old. As they've been living in Cambodia, he speaks Khymer but his English is improving.

We're looking forward to all being together to celebrate my husband's birthday.

Silk Scarves

2009-06-04T15:47:00.002+12:00

I have more gorgeous silk scarves available, thanks to my nephew recently visiting my daughter in Cambodia. I asked Cherie to select extra Autumn and Summer colours, as I had so few.

So if you'd like to have a look at the new range, please ring and arrange a time with me. (Sorry, only available to local residents.)

Creating Colours

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Pure Hues are clear = Winters (sharp, icy, brightly contrasting)

If you add white, a hue becomes a Tint = Springs (fresh & bright)

If you add grey, a hue becomes a Tone = Summers (soft & muted)

If you add black, a hue becomes a Shade = Autumns (deep & rich)

Remember to choose hues that flatter YOU :

WARM for Springs & Autumns

COOL for Summers & Winters.

Looking Slim

2009-06-04T15:24:00.002+12:00

continuing a series based around Leah Feldon's 10 Rules for Dressing Slim (www.leadfeldon.com) It's good to know her Top Ten are covered in the Personal Style workships, so consider this a refresher for you.

Rule 7 Beware of Stiff, Shiny or Bulky Fabrics

Clothes made from stiff fabrics tend to look shapeless, boxy and larger - and so will you if you wear them. Even soft fibres eg silk, can make stiff fabrics so if it looks and feels stiff; avoid it!

Shiny textures reflect light thus visually enlarging you and the garment. The reflected light also highlights every bumps & bulge however minuscule. A little bit of shine can make for interesting texture mixing but all-over shine will make you look bigger.

Consider the thickness of a fisherman's sweater or heavy corduroy trousers; bulky fabrics add mass to YOU. Anything Fluffy, Feathery, Fuzzy, and Furry adds volume (so choose carefully where you use, ie not all over). Generally, opt for finger, light-weight varieties however don't over-compensate as fabrics must have enough weight to skim not cling.

Select fabrics that move and drape. Picture yourself walking in a soft fluid skirt that falls into slimming vertical lines around your body. Now imagine you're wearing a rigid A-line skirt ... obvious isn't it?

Conversation Starters

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Introduce yourself, "Hi, I'm xxx - what's your name?" Make a comment about their name (it will help you remember it) and ask a question eg "Hi Janeen, what a lovely name - were you named after someone? / How do you spell that? / that's unusual, where does it come from?"

Use open-ended questions (closed questions can be answered with one word) "How do you know xxx (the host/s)?

Make an observation followed by a question; you could comment on the venue, the people or something pertinent. "That's a great gift you gave xxx, where did you find it?"

Or try this: "If you had to choose between two super-powers, would you rather fly or be able to turn invisible?" (nb in a study, men preferred flight while most women chose invisibility.)

Jackets

2009-06-04T15:02:00.010+12:00

The right jacket can be very flattering to you as well as 'making' an outfit. Conversely, the wrong jacket can emphasise figure faults and ruin an ensemble.

Remember, it's virtually impossible to buy a perfectly fitting jacket off the peg (ditto for most items actually) so please budget for alterations.

Here's some advice on how to choose the right length for you.

SHORT JACKETS: end in line with your waist or slightly below. They will make you look taller BUT will also highlight any extra weight you may be carrying around your middle.

MEDIUM JACKETS: end just below the widest part of your hips which they'll emphasis (avoid if you are a triangle / pear shape)

LONG JACKETS: Measure the distance from the top of your shoulder to the floor (take off your shoes when measuring). Now halve it. This is your personal long-jacket length ensuring your body looks in proportion. (NB for easy reference, note where this is on your body eg end of your little finger or take a tape measure with you when shopping.)

EXTRA LONG JACKETS: suit taller women (over 1.65m or 5'6"). They work best with slim pants and short to knee length skirts (definitely not long skirts - they'll mess up your proportions). I love this look but I'm too short to wear it!)

Choose a jacket that fits your shoulders (avoiding expensive shoulder alterations) and skims your waist (a semi-tailored fit is universally flattering).

Sleeve length is important; they should end just below your wrist bone (if they end at the widest part of your hand they make your hands AND hips look wider.)

Travelling Light

2009-04-23T14:50:00.005+12:00

Developing your wardrobe with the capsule concept makes travelling light easy to achieve. I think everyone has taken far too many items 'just in case'. On returning home you realise you only wore 20% of what you took!

Here's a simple system: limit yourself to two neutrals - one dark, one light - and one colour (two if you're away for a week or more). *see below for your seasonal colour suggestions

Make sure you have an outfit for each type of occasion: Casual, Smart, and Dressy. Remember, some items will work in two categories eg well-cut trousers (Smart and Dressy) as long as you have the right accessories to zhoozh it up.

Think of your time away as a pie and consider how big each slice needs to be. Is your trip 1/2 Casual, 1/4 Smart, 1/4 Dressy? Then pack accordingly.

Layers are the most practical solution when travelling to different climates. Opt for light, breathable fabrics such as merino wool, silk, or rayon and choose items that are multi-use eg camisoles which can be worn alone or under tops.

Large scarves are easy to pack and wonderfully versatile: sarong skirts & dresses, shawls & shrugs, they covers arms and/or heads as well as providing an extra layer.

Wear your Smart jacket to travel in; it will arrive less wrinkled than in your bag and maybe you'll be up-graded!

Travel Capsule Suggestions

Winters: black and white with bright turquoise

Summers: charcoal and white with smoky, medium blue

Autumns: chocolate and oyster white with muted green turquoise

Springs: camel and ivory with bright aqua

Lipsticks for your Season

2009-04-23T14:39:00.006+12:00

Knowing your Colours (season) makes life so much easier - especially when it comes to choosing lipsticks.

I found a UK website which sells lipsticks and lists them by your season. While you may not want to buy from them & pay the postage etc, the site is useful to view the recommended shades.

Spring: Coral, Warm Pink, Poppy

Summer: Dusky Rose, Sweet Pea, Garnet Red

Autumn: Warm Spice, Copper, Ruby Red

Winter: Burgundy, Fuchsia, Cranberry

Go to www.janefardon.com

Pilling - those annoying fuzzy balls

2009-04-23T14:29:00.003+12:00

Pilling is created when short fibres roll, creating a ball.

The best quality knits will NOT pill (some woollen and cashmere garments have a combination of short and longer fibres woven together).

If a garment has a high acrylic content it is much more likely to pill.

So that's the problem - what's the answer?

Buy really good, quality knits - which are more expensive (although price alone is not a guarantee).

Or be prepared to spend time depilling items using a small fabric shaver. Do NOT use a razor - I can virtually guarantee you'll nick the garment and create a hole (yes, this is the voice of experience speaking)!

Photo Update

2009-04-06T18:08:00.005+12:00

We caught up at the Women's Business Web March meeting. Phyllis - what a gorgeous silk scarf you're wearing! It's definitely one of your colours :-)

I sold the silk scarf to Phyllis, it comes from Cambodia where my daughter works. 75% of the money goes to support projects in Cambodia (IRD view it as income so 25% is retained to pay taxes)

She's Someone Special (3)

2009-04-05T11:07:00.005+12:00

For the photo shoot Phyllis' daughter-in-law helped her put her hair up, and Phyllis did her own make-up (ie NOT professional).

But the 'after' photo is very definitely showing the difference a professional photographer can make to a photo - wow! Isn't Phyllis stunning?

Oh yes, and here's the update: early in 2009 Phyllis attended a family wedding in Australia. She bought a new outfit in Sydney - she looked (and felt) a million dollars! Note: she didn't need my help when shopping because she now understands her Personal Style.

And that's why I love my work!

She's Someone Special (2)

2009-04-05T11:06:00.004+12:00

Charmaine took another 'before' photo of Phyllis, this time she wore a lime green polo neck jumper (see Undercover post on why this style doesn't suit full figured women).

She's Someone Special (1)

2009-04-05T10:44:00.005+12:00

I love my work! I meet such wonderful women; teaching and sharing some style basics. Sometimes I hear about the changes they've made as a result and the effect that's had. Some may say 'it's only clothes' but changing what you wear can change how you feel about yourself (and how others see you).

Late in 2008 Marinkovich Photography and I created a package deal titled "She's Someone Special". It consists of an Individual Consultation with me (Personal Style Workshop and wardrobe assessment) and a Design Consultation and Portrait Shoot with Charmaine, all for just $300

To help us promote this package we worked with Phyllis; we have some great 'before' and 'after' photos to show for our time together.

When I arrived at Phyllis' home she was wearing a shapeless, warm red shirt and her hair was a golden honey blonde (see photo). During the Personal Style Workshop we identified she's a cool Winter. We spent time going through her wardrobe and selecting clothes she already owned, which would be ideal for her portrait. Before the shoot, Phyllis chose to re-colour her hair to Ash Blonde.

Undercover

2009-04-05T10:27:00.003+12:00

The right underwear can make the most amazing difference! Lumps and bumps are smoothed away, small breasted women develop cleavage, large breasts are supported, shaped (and minimised if you want).

Personally I've always wanted a bit more; let's face it I was embarrassed to be 30 years old and 30AA! Things improved as I got older - 34B at 40 and 34/36C at 50 - I was thrilled! Then I was gently advised that 'we soften around the sides as we get older'. Sadly I've 'softened' around the sides AND waist AND tummy ....Sigh!

Anyway, for the ladies who want to flatter a fuller bust here are some reminders: DO get fitted professionally, it's essential (and a good corsetiere will NOT embarrass you in anyway). V-necks are the most flattering necklines; high neck lines eg crew, jewel, turtle, polo can make you look larger. Avoid details at the bust line eg yokes, pockets and horizontal lines eg sleeve hems.

I recently heard a stylist advocating 'cleavage divas' should wear double-breasted jackets as it 'squashes' them. AAAGH! The last thing you want is to look broader and/or shapeless. Opt for a single-breasted tailored or semi-tailored jacket with a low stance (where the buttons & lapels meet - the bottom of the V-neckline) ie at mid-chest or cleavage level and with just a one-button fastening.

My Mum

2009-02-17T14:32:00.003+13:00

Let me introduce you to my mother; she is a Summer and wow! doesn't this blue-green outfit suit her? Wearing one colour helps her look taller and slimmer, the 'jacket' keeps interest on the top half (and covers upper arms).

Cool-toned Ladies can let their hair silver naturally. Remember, grey hair has no pigmentation it just reflects the underlying tone of your colouring. Cool = blue undertones Warm = yellow undertones.

I love seeing women enjoying the colours that suit them - they look gorgeous! And doesn't the wardrobe mix and match easily?

Men & Style (2)

2009-02-06T16:19:00.003+13:00

Men’s and women’s body shapes may be quite different, but the basics of camouflaging figure challenges are the same.

The big difference is that the ideal body shape for men is the “Y” or inverted triangle – wide shoulders tapering down to narrow hips.

Here are some reminders from my workshops: use the design lines in clothes to emphasise assets and camouflage figure challenges. Vertical lines help everyone look taller and slimmer. Select horizontal lines carefully; across the shoulders work well for most men.

Nobody (and no body) suits shapeless clothes; big baggy garments make you look big and baggy too. Anything worn too tight causes you to look heavier eg tops stretched over a beer gut are NOT covering it up, they’re emphasising it. The same maxim applies to men as to women – ‘Skim not Cling’.

Good posture and grooming are major contributors to looking stylish. As an added bonus, standing tall has an immediate effect on reducing tubby tummies yet expanding chests.

Your physiology affects your mood: slouching or scuffing your feet and looking down are all communicating lack of confidence – to everyone who sees you AND to yourself. Act as if you’re positive and self assured via your body language and these feelings will soon follow.

The well groomed man showers daily, uses anti-perspirant, trims his facial hair (including eyebrows, nostrils, ears), washes his hair regularly and gets it cut by a good stylist.

He looks after his skin; it’s kept clean and clear and he uses sun-screen. While he may not pay for a manicure and pedicure, he cares for his hands and feet which are clean and smooth, with nails short and tidy.

His clothes are clean and ironed, without any buttons missing or repairs required. His shoes are clean and in good condition.

Have you noticed how important CLEAN is? Being well groomed doesn’t cost much - it just takes a bit of time.

Men & Style (1)

2009-02-06T16:11:00.003+13:00

I’m sometimes asked about whether I run workshops for men; the simple answer is No. I choose to focus on women’s style, I like working with and helping women (besides, most guys I know aren’t that interested).

Having said that, I had one male attend a small group workshop and we had a great time identifying his personal style - Colours, Style Personality etc. What a difference! Apparel shopping is now quick and easy, and very successful for him.

Usually, the query is from a woman wanting to help the man in her life. Well, the style basics for his personal style are very similar to her own.

Start with determining which Colours compliment him. Is it the warm, yellow-based colours or the cool, blue-based shades? Can he wear the clear, bright, vivid tones or do they overwhelm him? We want to see him first, not the colour. Do the muted, smokey hues work better?

Is there a difference between men’s seasonal Colours and women’s? Yes and No. Most Kiwi males – even if the colour suits – wouldn’t wear some of the shades in women’s seasonal swatches eg Winter’s bright pink. Keep to the basics: yellow-based or blue-based, clear and vivid or muted and smokey.

These days most budgets require wardrobes that co-ordinate well, and are efficient rather than extensive. The simplest way to achieve this is to build ensembles around a base of neutrals that (a) flatter, (b) work well together and (c) harmonise with all other colours worn.

Second step: what’s his Style Personality? The four main types I refer to in my workshops are Classic-Chic, Feminine-Romantic, Natural-Casual, and Exotic-Expressive. (Just alter the terms a bit to suit a guy ie delete ‘chic’ and ‘feminine’). Remember one type usually dominates, with another as a secondary influence.

Don’t confuse dressing appropriately for the occasion with his Style Personality. Keep in mind we need clothes for casual (at home, relaxing), smart (business, going out) and dressy (formal events, weddings, etc)

Kiwis tend to live a casual life-style with few formal affairs. Many women bewail the lack of opportunities to dress up. In some circles it’s even acceptable to wear jeans to weddings, and many don’t own a smart jacket.

I wrote the last sentence about males but horrors! I realise it applies to women too.

Looking Slim with Colour

2008-12-09T15:15:00.006+13:00

Monochromatic dressing is the key ie wearing just one colour. This gives a strong, unbroken, vertical line that elongates the body. You can use texture to add interest, shades of one colour (eg chocolate, coffee & cafe au lait) or different colours of the same value (imagine they were in a black & white photo: same value would be the same grey).

Have you ever wondered why so many folk in the fashion industry wear black with black with black? Monochromatic dressing ensures you look slim, everything goes with everything and it's hard to tell the cost!

Personally, I disagree that wearing all black makes you look slim: you look heavier, it's hard to see your shape, and you're silhouetted against almost every background. Black can be hard to wear near your face, even if you are a Winter (and it's one of your neutrals).

Bend the rule slightly by adding a bit of colour. The simplest way is to wear your dark, base colour in your trousers/skirt and jacket/cardigan with a flattering colour in your scarf/blouse ie 'inside' your silhouette.

The other option is to keep your inner silhouette monochromatic (top & bottom) with colour introduced via a jacket/cardigan. While this will work, it isn't as versatile because

a) jackets are usually more expensive than tops
b) coloured jackets are more memorable (so you can't wear them as often) and
c) we take our jackets off (losing the uplift colour).

I use this 'rule' all the time - just look at my profile photo! The charcoal grey (better than black now my hair is greying) with a hot pink scarf really works well for me.

Body Shape and Barbie

2008-11-22T09:21:00.004+13:00

Did you realise that if Barbie were life-size,
her measurements would be 39-23-33 inches? (100-58-84 cms)

In each workshop, I teach on the design lines of clothes and basic body shapes. Understanding our silhouette & shape helps us make the most of the lines within clothes - so we can camouflage our figure 'challenges' and highlight our assets.

Virtually every time the comment is made, "I'm not as bad as I thought I was" or "I'm not so big in the hips/waist/shoulders." While I'm sure I'm not dealing with the true psychiatric disorder of Body Dysmorphia (being excessively concerned about and preoccupied by an imagined or minor defect in physical features) it's sad that so few are positive about their body.

We are continually fed LIES via magazines, TV, movies etc. The body shape of models exists in just 4% of the population, and even the super-models have their photos enhanced & changed ... the women we see in the media DON'T EXIST!

Yes, of course we need to be fit and healthy; eating food that's good for us and exercising appropriately (not always easy in our hyper-busy culture) but please look around and make sure you are feeding realistic, healthy images into your mind.

The mind doesn't know the difference between fantasy and reality - that's why the imagination is so powerful and visualisation can improve an athlete's performance. But if you focus on an unachievable, unrealistic goal you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment and failure. Don't be so cruel to yourself!

Reducing Stress

2008-11-05T08:18:00.004+13:00

The Ten Commandments for Reducing Stress

Thou shalt NOT be perfect, nor even try to be
Thou shalt NOT try to be all things to all people
Thou shalt leave things undone that ought to be done
Thou shalt NOT spread thyself too thin
Thou shalt learn to say "No"
Thou shalt schedule time for thyself, and thy support network
Thou shalt switch off and do nothing regularly
Thou shalt be 'boring', 'untidy', 'inelegant' and 'unattractive' at times
Thou shalt NOT even feel guilty
Especially, thou shalt NOT be thine own worst enemy, but be thy best friend.

Body Shape

2008-11-05T08:07:00.005+13:00

Understanding your Body Shape is one of the basics to choosing the design lines that will work best for you. I like to keep things simple - I refer to four basic shapes (Hour-Glass, Triangle, Inverted Triangle, and Rectangle). But there is an even simpler classification: Straight or Curvy.

Straights usually have rounded stomachs, a 'soft' waistline and fairly flat bottoms; any extra weight is carried on their tummies or upper hips.

Fitted dresses, skirts & trousers work well, as do skirts with straight lines. Choose minimal waistbands & slim fit rather than full, gathered or pleated skirts/trousers.

Make the most of your shapely legs, and SKIM the waist (don't try to create/emphasise what you don't have).

Curvys tend to have wider hips with flatter stomachs, rounded bottoms and curvy upper thighs; their extra weight is carried on their lower hips, bottoms or upper thighs.

Soft, flowing lines on the lower half works well but shift dresses and straight skirts don't. Highlight your waist & top half.

Viewing Colours & Common Terms

2008-10-27T13:13:00.005+13:00

Did you know that natural daylight is the best light for viewing colours? Artificial lighting affects shades - incandescent lights have more yellow tones whereas fluorescent tubes have more blue tones. That's why I prefer to have workshops during the day; it makes identifying a client's most flattering colours much easier. Seeing colours properly is why it's harder to shop at malls - lots of artificial lights.

I looked back through my newsletters and found the following; taken from a paint shop's colour chart.

Useful terms when planning your home decor:
MONOCHROMATIC: uses one colour, with variations of texture and value (light, medium, dark) to stop it looking monotonous

ANALOGOUS: uses a primary colour and neighbouring colours eg yellow with yellow-green (lime) and yellow-orange (melon).

COMPLEMENTARY: uses colours that are directly opposite each other on the colour wheel eg red & green, purple & yellow. Complementary colours intensify each other and tend to be lively. Best if one colour dominates and the other accessorises.

SPLIT COMPLEMENTARY: uses a colour in combination with two colours directly opposite on the colour wheel eg red with yellow-green (lime) and blue-green (turquoise)

TRIADIC: uses three colours that are equi-distant on the colour wheel eg orange, green, purple. One colour tends to be used as dominant and the other two as accents.

ACHROMATIC: white, greys and black.

Style Personality

2008-10-03T14:51:00.006+13:00

Some clients say their wardrobe has multiple personalities! They have lots of casual clothes, with some classic pieces for the office, some feminine things for dates, and some dramatic items just because they were bored.

While I understand how easily this can happen, co-ordinating clothes then becomes very difficult. Also the incongruence is communicating a mixed message. People are quick to pick up on anyone 'acting' a role (hypocrisy), they may not be consciously aware of why they think someone isn't who they say they are - they just 'know'.

Women are particularly good at reading folk; I think it's because of our design - we're usually the ones working with and supporting those who can't communicate (I'm referring to babies and children, but hey! men often struggle to communicate too.)

Recognising your own Style Personality ensures you are consistently being you, no matter what the occasion. Don't get muddled between appropriate dressing ie for an occasion and your Style Personality.

As Kiwis we tend to wear casual clothes most of the time - especially here in the laid-back beach resort of Mt Maunganui. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's your Style Personality. And identifying your Style Personality really helps you select clothes and accessories that truly suit you and will work really well together.

I've Nothing to Wear!

2008-10-03T14:37:00.003+13:00

"I've nothing to wear" - a desperate cry from a female, usually said while standing in front of a wardrobe full of clothes with items strewn on the bed or floor or spilling out of drawers.

Statistics show that most women wear 20% of their clothes 80% of the time.

I think clothes need to earn their right to be in my wardrobe! I want an efficient yet not extensive range of clothes, with something for every occasion.

Have you ever gone Panic Shopping? There's some occasion looming and you have "nothing to wear" so you go shopping but you can't find anything suitable. Perhaps you buy something and maybe you wear it, or it lurks in the back of the cupboard accusing you.

It becomes a Closet Orphan: it doesn't go with anything else you own nor does it go out much.

Maybe you buy something to keep the Closet Orphan company. Now you have TWO items that don't go with anything else and they still don't go out much!

You need a plan!

Intro

2008-10-03T12:23:00.006+13:00

I'm starting a blog so I can say things there's no room for on my web-site! It's a great little web site (www.personal-style.co.nz) but has its limitations - due to my limited budget.

I want to have somewhere for FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) and interaction - someone suggested a blog would be the best format. So here we go!

I've always been fascinated by Style and Personal Presentation. I distinctly remember a big red book I had in England (we left when I was 10) which had many different authors and topics. I read and re-read those two subjects ... dunno what happened to the book. It's probably a collector's item now!!

Anyway, although I wanted to ride horses for a living it didn't seem very practical and my parents insisted I have some training for a real job, so I went to secretarial college and had many positions in that field over the years.

Marrying, having children, and moving around meant all sorts of different jobs: as well as secretary, receptionist, telephonist there was selling skin care and cosmetics (did that several times), packing pet food, minding other people's children, second-hand goods shop assistant, and so on.

Managing on a budget became second nature (I can still create a meal from left-overs & pantry items) as did shopping at the local opp. shop. I enjoy learning and over the years I've done heaps of courses. I love reading and read widely; I remember lots of information (useful for games like Trivial Pursuit). I also like analysing - knowing how and why things work.

Repetitive Strain Injury (also known as Occupational Over-use Syndrome) forced a career change. I began teaching adults: literacy, numeracy, basic employment skills, and computer skills. Frustration made me re-evaluate and I opted to teach the basics of style.

Over the years I'd spent a lot of money to be told what my colours were (twice - the first one was wrong), my style personality, my body shape (changeable), and how to plan a wardrobe. I was still fascinated by it all! I'd read and re-read every style book in the libraries, plus I bought a few, read magazines and articles galore.

I knew what worked for me - not many shopping mistakes - whether I bought new or second-hand. I was often complimented on my presentation and it often made me smile - they had no idea how little money I'd spent!

They say if you love your work, you never have to 'work' a day in your life - and that's what it feels like for me. Helping women know what suits them is tremendously rewarding. It may not be saving lives but it is hugely empowering for some.

I get to hear their stories and how a Personal Style workshop has made a difference. Sometimes it's just as simple as having more confidence when you go shopping. Or the great savings of time and money. Attending a special occasion and knowing you look great (especially when your ex is there!) Getting a job. Starting a business. Being a positive role model for your daughter / niece.